How many of us have heard this saying?  “You’re not a rider until you have fallen off seven times.” Some riders are extremely fortunate and have never had a serious injury. Others not so much, and have had to work hard to overcome fear and shattered confidence.  If anyone tells you horseback riding is not dangerous, they are without a doubt horribly, terribly, grossly wrong.  

Physical fear in the sport of riding is a given – we are dealing with a powerful and sometimes unpredictable animal. All riders possess some physical fear at some point in their riding career and usually for good reason. Fear is a very useful emotion, obviously if we didn’t experience fear, we wouldn’t be able to tell if we were in danger. Still, fear in excess can be paralyzing and irrational and should be addressed. Having a major riding accident is like having any kind of accident for the first time, it shakes our belief system. As human beings, we have this tendency to think we are invulnerable until something comes along to challenge that notion.

The reactions you may experience after an accident will vary, but I find that there are four general ways in which people respond. First, some people will experience an avoidance reaction.

They may avoid going out to ride, or make excuses about why they can’t have a lesson or do a particular exercise.

I remember instructing one young rider who was afraid to canter.

Every time I instructed the group to canter, he would go into the middle of the ring and begin to fix his boots.

Second, it is possible you may experience a reaction of ‘freezing.’ That is, you may assume you can get back on and jump that oxer, but when you find yourself nearing the actual fence, you pull your horse away or pull up.

Third, you may respond by becoming ‘hyper vigilant,’ or feeling jumpy and extremely conscious of every move you or your horse makes.

If you are experiencing such a reaction, you will probably find it hard to ‘let go’ and just ride.


Finally, you may experience a reaction in the form of excessive anxiety that was not present prior to your fall. In other words, the butterflies are going crazy in your stomach, your heart is pounding right through your chest and you feel as though you might pass out. It may feel very much like a panic attack.

Whatever your reaction, the very first thing you should do is analyze what happened. Accidents occur for many different reasons, and how you proceed to deal with it will in large part depend on this factor.

Analyzing also tends to have a calming effect, as you shift into a logical mode of thinking as opposed to an emotional one. As mentioned, there are numerous reasons why accidents occur.

Many, many accidents happen to athletes and in general because of preoccupation with other life stressors. These stressors may include marital discord, school difficulties, life transition (graduation or marriage), financial difficulties and other ‘life changing’ events.

So ask yourself – have there been things going on in your life that may be draining all your energy and concentration?  Other times accidents occur because we just lack good common sense (ie: “I knew my horse was incredibly fresh after a week off but I just got on him anyway.”) It also could be that you were attempting a task which was over your skill level, or that you got a little too overconfident and took a risk with very poor odds and you happened to lose. Sometimes, of course, we are simply guilty of being mindless!

Unfortunately there is no way you can escape this condition, unless of course you happen to be inhuman.

The point is, you can ease a lot of fear if you carefully go through what happened, and what’s more you may discover it may only be a matter of correcting a very obvious mistake.

One of the worst things you can do after an accident is to deny your feelings and play the “tough cookie” routine. If you deny your feelings you could be setting yourself up to do more damage.

This is a situation I have seen many times and experienced myself. If you ignore what happened, and begin before you are psychologically prepared, the ensuing tentativeness or overcompensating boldness could lead to another injury or a further loss of confidence.

Sure, you have to have some degree of ‘mental toughness,’ or be able to push through some fear and apprehension.

Just make sure you are doing it for the right reasons (remember, you don’t need to be anybody’s hero but your own,) and that your outlook is tempered with some common sense.

You should also take care to ensure that you are adequately physically prepared before you begin riding again.

I’m not suggesting that you wait until you are 100%, but rather that you assess how your injury will affect your riding.

For instance, if it is the type of injury that will affect your balance, and you begin too soon, you may be asking for another accident to happen or risk losing confidence in your skills.

Techniques and Suggestions for Rebuilding your Confidence:

  • Take it slow: unless you have an impending competition, it is a good idea to take things slow when you resume riding. This may also mean ‘bumping down a notch’ in terms of what you do in lessons, such as jumping smaller jumps or not riding without stirrups.
    • Build physical strength/basic skills: to increase your sense of physical security, you may want to really concentrate on building your physical strength. You don’t necessarily need to ride for this, although you can. It can be just as effective for you to go to the gym and work on those legs!  In terms of focusing on basic skills, like body position etc, this can not only increase your sense of security on a horse, but also give you something positive to focus your attention on.
    • Realign your self talk: when we experience anxiety, we are always conveying certain messages to ourselves. You may not be aware that you are sending yourself messages like “I know I will fall off again if I try that fence” or “I can’t ride at all, whatever possessed me to think I could!?”  If you catch yourself talking in your head like this, tell yourself- ‘STOP!’ and then replace those thoughts with more reasonable, positive ones. For example: “STOP. I am feeling a little bit anxious about riding again, but that’s normal and I can still ride with that anxiety. I am feeling more confident riding everyday.”  If you are having trouble with the strength of your negative thoughts try this exercise: pretend you are a lawyer and you are being asked to refute a belief (your negative self statement) by gathering and presenting all the evidence to the contrary (ie: what exactly is the probability that you will fall off again, given the facts of the situation?) This approach is not only effective in terms of getting you logically, as opposed to emotionally oriented, but also has the tendency to inject some much needed humor into the situation!
    • Visualize yourself correcting the problem: if you have discovered that the accident was indeed due to a technical error, then you can visualize yourself performing correctly. One big caution with this: make sure you do find out, from a coach preferably, what exactly it was you should have been doing (like shifting your weight to the outside when riding a corner) and concentrate on that in your imagery sessions. You cannot effectively visualize by telling yourself  “now I see myself not doing that,” because the brain cannot process ‘not’ very well and usually goes with the doing that part of the statement (ask yourself, what does ‘not’ shifting my weight to the inside when riding a corner look like?)
    • Relaxation training: there are lots of people who are not even aware they have excess tension in their body, and as everyone knows, this can have a really adverse impact on your horse’s confidence as well as your own. An exercise which is easy to practice at home is what is called progressive relaxation: lie down comfortably with your arms stretched out at your sides. Start at either the top of bottom of your body, working your way to the other end, alternately tensing and relaxing each major muscle group. Hold the tension long enough to remember what the sensation feels like in that particular area, before letting the tension go. If practiced frequently enough, you will be able to quickly assess, even in a competition situation, whether or not you are properly relaxed or have excess tension in your body. If you don’t practice the skill of relaxation already, then you should be!  I believe relaxation is the most important skill a rider can possess. Think about it – the way you communicate with your horse is through your body, and the more relaxed you are, the smoother this communication will be.

How you begin to build up your confidence after an accident will depend on your unique situation and your individual personality.

Some of the factors which will make your situation unique include: age, experience level, coach, urgency of situation (competition), presence/absence of injury, injury type/severity and previous falls.

It may take some time to sort out the best approach for you, or if it feels overwhelming, you may want to invest in some outside help.



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